A cheating husband has quite a lot, but the wife was having an affair also is not small. According to a study conducted by the Coffee and Company, a marriage bureau in the UK, from about 3 thousand female respondents, at least 20 percent of women admitted having an affair.
While studies conducted site askmen.com find 5 percent of women have or are cheating on their partners, while less than 3 percent of men admitted never or was having an affair. Why does a woman having an affair? Here are the reasons:
Vengeance
According to relationship expert, Seth Meyers, Psy.D, a psychologist from Los Angeles and author of Dr. Seth's Love Prescription, cognitively to faithful men have the same as women. However, this does not stop the woman for cheating. In fact, there are some women who feel like revenge when her partner was having an affair. Men are not emotional, so usually they can not feel the same pain but he felt his own pain, once said Bonnie Weil, Ph.D., author of Adultery: The Forgivable Sin. Women feel an affair is a way to equalize.
Seeking increased adrenaline
An affair is an experience that is against routine, thrilling, and even some say, a release of stress. A woman having an affair sometimes just want to get the pleasure to have more than one man who loved her. Generally, a wife will try to explain and tell her husband that there are problems in the relationship merea. If the husband does not work to help overcome the problem of the relationship, or just respond briefly, and then cheated on his wife because he felt he had no other choice.
Encouragement ego
Who would not want to be worshiped and praised? Generally, men's infidelities will try to make the women feel so great with all the words and praise for making her feel sexy and fabulous do not like what is done by a current partner. Affair often occurs in relationships that make the wife does not feel connected emotionally with the current partner.
If a wife feels neglected or feels abandoned by her husband, she will become brittle and easily run into the affair, whether emotional or physical, a man who makes her feel special and desirable. When the tense relationship between two couples is certain each will try to hurt the ego, and this will open the door to problems.
To search for a love affair
Long-standing relationship is very different from a new relationship begins. Chemical flow of love will be more lost the longer the relationship is established. Decrease of love that can not be denied, and could happen, but it can be kept warm. It is important to keep and maintain the chemical stays on even though a love affair has long been intertwined. For example, by doing a 30 second kiss and hug 20 seconds, which can increase endorphin levels. Conflict creates excitement, a marriage that is too "cool-calm", rarely an argument, an argument is rarely, rarely remove the contents of the liver, can actually lead to the infidelity of one. Of course that does not mean it must apply every day and every moment.
Want to get caught
Most women view infidelity as an escape hole, especially the wives who already had children. If she already has children, it would be difficult for a woman left her husband without feeling guilty. But the guilt would be reduced if not he who initiated the breakup. As a result, the wife will look for ways to reduce stress and guilt by way of an affair, her husband would leave her anyway.
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